Supposedly this is a temple to the Goddess Mazu. These are all over the place in Zhangzhou, this one is in the area south of Nine Dragon River.
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
Monday, January 26, 2009
Homesickness
Last term I had a terrible spell of homesickness. That combined with general frustrations of being here caused me to start planning for an early return home. Luckily, I had a really good friend who helped me through that period. It was probably the worst homesickness I've ever had even when I was in Korea.
When you are an expat local friends are incredibly important. But, they can also be incredibly difficult to make and keep. Right now, I have about a dozen acquaintances and one actual friend. Sure, people call me once a month or once every other month to go out to dinner or play sports or go for a walk, but I really don't consider that actual friendship. It was worse in Korea. It was just an endless parade of people who I was friends with for a month or two at a time and then it was over like nothing ever happened.
Believe it or not I have actually discovered benefits to this seemingly lonely lifestyle. I pretty much have no choice but to seriously try to integrate into this society and see what it really feels like to be a local here. And, it has finally helped me to overcome the mental barrier I used to have about language study.
With this lifestyle nothing is permanent and everything is short lived. It can be unbelievably lonely, and incredibly liberating all at the same time. I feel another wave of homesickness coming on but thankfully I am taking a short vacation to 桂林 Guìlín with my friend in just a couple of days.
When you are an expat local friends are incredibly important. But, they can also be incredibly difficult to make and keep. Right now, I have about a dozen acquaintances and one actual friend. Sure, people call me once a month or once every other month to go out to dinner or play sports or go for a walk, but I really don't consider that actual friendship. It was worse in Korea. It was just an endless parade of people who I was friends with for a month or two at a time and then it was over like nothing ever happened.
Believe it or not I have actually discovered benefits to this seemingly lonely lifestyle. I pretty much have no choice but to seriously try to integrate into this society and see what it really feels like to be a local here. And, it has finally helped me to overcome the mental barrier I used to have about language study.
With this lifestyle nothing is permanent and everything is short lived. It can be unbelievably lonely, and incredibly liberating all at the same time. I feel another wave of homesickness coming on but thankfully I am taking a short vacation to 桂林 Guìlín with my friend in just a couple of days.
Wow...
You don't even know what New Year's is until you've been here during Chinese New Year. HOLY CRAP!!! I didn't know there was that many fireworks in the entire world let alone little ol' Zhangzhou!!!
Sunday, January 25, 2009
Saturday, January 24, 2009
Friday, January 23, 2009
Went shopping
Went shopping today for a strap for my camera so it's easier to carry. Then my friend and I chatted in the park, went to a comic book store for some study material, and ate lunch at a Korean restaurant.
Thursday, January 22, 2009
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
Old city
Monday, January 19, 2009
Xiangqi
象棋 Xiàngqí is a Chinese board game that is related to Chess. It's obvious the first time you see the board that they are similar. Anyway, one of the Christmas presents I got was a xiàngqí set. I played my friend last week and lost 3 games out of 4.
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